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I dont believe I have what it takes to get a
college education. I long to be with my family
and friends. I am feeling conflicted between continuing
my education and helping out my family. I often
feel misunderstood by faculty and classmates. As
a person of color, I often feel out of place on a majority
campus. This is too tiring. I work two jobs; plus
I go to school full-time
These and many other statements reflect legitimate concerns
of many students of color, particularly Latin@s, as they attempt
to successfully transition to college life. A transitioni.e.,
the passing from one stage to anothercan be both unsettling
and rewarding. Most college students enjoy learning, making
new friends, visiting new places, growing intellectually,
personally and spiritually, and look forward to attending
collegea decision that may involve all of the above.
However, several weeks into a college career and the excitement
felt during the first few weeks of the academic year can be
eclipsed by less enjoyable or just painful experiences. Facing
the contradictions between two cultures while enduring identity
changes as one steps into a college campus can lead to feeling
unprepared, isolated and lonely, longing to be home (or just
someplace else), feelings of self-doubt, experiencing a sense
of alienation from your family and the things that remind
you of your culture, or feeling insulted and violated by derogatory
comments or jokes.
As students of color in a predominantly White institution,
Latino students personal and academic experiences diverge
from those of their counterparts, White students. And while
college life can be at times difficult, there are ways to
enhance its experience.
Here is a list of helpful tips to help you make a successful
transition and maintain a sense of constancy in the middle
of change:
Just remember the vowels
Advance the Life of Others: Become involved in at
least one student-,
academic-, social-, religious-, or community-based organization.
Apart from helping you feel connected, this experience is
likely to enhance both your life and the lives of others.
For a list of Latino Organizations check ¿Que Pasa,
OSU?s website (http://www.service.ohio-state.edu/students/quepasa/).
Establish Affirming Relationships: Individuals that
value and exercise respect and honesty tend to form affirming
relationships, where differences as well as similarities are
embraced.
Identify Previous Successes: Though you may feel overwhelmed
and believe there is no solution to a problem, more than likely
you have already succeeded in facing similar concerns in the
past. Identify a previous challenging transition (e.g., starting
a new job or relocating) and the coping skills you implemented
to successfully overcome this event. Once you have identified
these skills, apply them to find a solution to your current
concern.
Obey your thirst: Thats a relevant slogan for
a popular soft drink. The idea is to pay careful attention
to your social, emotional, physical, spiritual, intellectual,
and psychological needs and engage in activities aimed at
addressing these needs. For example, if youre feeling
isolated and lonely, talk to a supportive friend, family,
faculty, or staff member. If youre feeling swamped by
academic tasks, discuss you concerns with a faculty or a tutor.
Utilize Campus Resources: A first step to reaching
out to others may involve identifying a potential resource.
The Ohio State Universitys Student Resource Guide website
lists numerous on- and off-campus student resources. From
Counseling and Consultation Services (this writers home
at work is a safe place to talk about any concerns that may
be troubling you) to the latest exhibition at the Wexner Center
for the Arts, just a fine place to kick back with friends,
go to: http://studentaffairs.osu.edu/resourceguide.asp
For some student perspectives on adaptation, See Adapting
to Campus Drive
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