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From Mango Street to Campus Drive
How
to deal with stress-related issues
By Cristine Masters, R.N.
For this article, I researched the topic of stress and
found an abundance of lay literature and magazine articles.
Oddly, I found very few scientific research articles that
discuss stress-relief strategies for college and graduate
students. Somewhat perplexed, I thought about stressful and
non-stressful periods I have had in the last eight years (my
university experience to date). In the last month or so, my
stress levels have not undergone the customary spike that
comes with beginning a new quarter. The first few weeks have
come and gone, and I am still breathing easy and do not yet
feel suffocated by the prospect of impending tests, papers,
clinical reviews, etc., so I began to think about how this
quarter was different from the previous one.
Before the beginning of last summers quarter, I returned
from a long road trip to North Carolina two days before classes
began. I purchased my textbooks late and I struggled with
my new schedule throughout the summer. I rarely felt prepared
for anything, and it seemed nearly impossible to exercise
regularly. Midway through summer quarter, I started to feel
inundated by the stress of my daily schedule.
This quarter I planned a mini-road trip to West Virginia
that ended four days before I had to return to school. I pre-purchased
all my textbooks and prepared my new spiral notebook before
the start of classes. I threw out my old desk and bought a
new, inexpensive one that better suited my needs. To stay
fit, I chose to start dieting and scheduled clinical hours
so that it was possible for me to join a soccer league and
run in the afternoons. Afterwards, I am usually more motivated
to visit the library or go to work. This quarter I have taken
on a few more responsibilities but, thus far, I am managing
them well. I am a little tired, but I am working on improving
my sleep schedule.
Thus, in two quarters I have learned a few simple guidelines
for coping with new-quarter stress. Stressful days can be
avoided with a few hours of planning and preparation, and
timely organized vacation plans ease the transition from holidays
to school. Anticipating what you will need and having expectations
for the coming quarter help minimize stress. Arranging time
for physical and social activities is as important as scheduling
work and study periods. Most importantly, critically prioritize
tasks and choose activities that will ultimately bring you
the most satisfaction. My friend, Ernesto Escoto from Counseling
and Consultation Service, expands on these suggestions and
provides more details for stress management and stress-relieving
activities in the article below.
Managing Stress
By Ernesto R. Escoto, Ph.D.
While some stress can add excitement and opportunity as we
move forward to reaching goals in our lives, too much of it
can lead to serious physical and mental problems. In order
to more effectively manage unhealthy stress, it is important
to know and understand the signals and sources of stress as
well as develop and implement effective stress-management
skills.
The suggestions in this article are not all-inclusive and
are not designed to be a substitute to consulting with a medical
and mental health professional, particularly if your symptoms
have become chronic and/or are now interfering with your ability
to function adequately at work, school, and/or home. A number
of OSU resources are listed at the end of this article.
Signals
How stress is manifested can be influenced by cultural background,
among other factors. Therefore, it is important to pay attention
to a full range of symptoms. Here is a list of the signals
of stress:
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feelings |
thoughts |
behavior |
physical |
| anxiety |
self-criticism |
irritability |
tense muscles |
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uneasy, nervous |
self-doubt |
aggressiveness |
stomach distress |
| overwhelmed |
excessive worry |
restlessness |
headaches |
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troubled, upset |
difficulty concentrating |
excessive smoking |
breathing difficulties |
| frantic, panicky |
forgetfulness |
alcohol/drug abuse |
sleep problems |
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feel helpless, angry |
mental blocks |
erratic performance |
tight chest, shaking |
| feel dissatisfied |
difficulty making decisions |
indecisiveness |
nausea, frequent colds |
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Sources of Stress
Life stages (e.g., adolescence, early adulthood, adulthood,
etc.) have much to do with the sources of stress we are likely
to face. As Cristine pointed out above, most college students
sources of stress can be positive and less positive events
and may include leaving home for the first time, school-related
demands, work/internship, establishing and maintaining social
relationships, financial concerns, living alone or with roommates,
studying abroad, experiencing discrimination because of your
ethnic/racial background or sexual orientation, and/or simply
falling in love.
Managing Stress
Though you may be familiar with some of these skills, they
still may require that you apply them regularly in order to
increase your competence and confidence as well as their usefulness
in helping you manage stress successfully. After reviewing
and briefly practicing the skills below, take the time to
identify your top three based on their usefulness and/or personal
preference and make them a part of your daily routine.
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Relaxation skills such as deep breathingtake
a minute to inhale deeply and slowly; inhale through your
nose and exhale through your mouth; repeat slowly until
you feel relaxed.
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Time management skills: Take the time
to plan ahead. Develop a reasonable schedule that integrates
regular (i.e., daily) time engaged in activities aimed
at managing your stress.
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Seek support: Build/maintain a support
systemone, two, or a group of individuals with whom
you feel safe, supported, and validated. Talk about your
concerns/stress/personal circumstances.
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Laugh! Watch a funny movie or learn to
laugh at yourself.
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Re-assess your lifestyle: If your lifestyle
is the source of much anxiety or stress, consider revising
it. This may include making changes to your school/work
schedule, sleeping/eating habits, and/or to the way you
do, or do not, take care of yourself.
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Engage in physical activities: Physical
activity (e.g., aerobics, yoga, cycling, walking, etc.)
will release your pent-up energy and alleviate much of
your symptoms of stress.
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Express yourself: Cry, write a letter
to someone, or write in a journal, paint or draw, or express
yourself in any other artistic way. These are all good
stress relievers.
If you are interested or your needs require consulting
with a professional, consider contacting the Counseling
and Consultation Service (CCS) at 292-5766. CCS offers personal
counseling and/or consultations as well as workshops in
Stress Management and Enhanced Performance.
Cristine Masters is a masters student in the Family
Nurse Practitioner Program and a new contributor to ¿Qué
Pasa, OSU? Ernesto R. Escoto, Ph.D., is a counselor with
the Office of Counseling and Consultation Service at the
Younkin Success Center.
Managing Stress material was adapted from the following
Counseling and Consultation Services printed resources:
Dealing with the Stress of Traumatic Events: Strategies
for Those Affected and End of the Quarter Stress: A Checklist;
and The University of Texas, Austin Counseling and Mental
Health Centers Website on Managing Stress by Mark
Zentner, Ph.D., and Jeff Kulley, Ph.D.
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